Have you ever wondered what’s inside a sex therapist’s naughty drawer?…
Every time I mention my naughty drawer to someone, I need to explain that it’s not a standard kind of a drawer. In fact, its contents are quite different from what a regular person would consider a normal or usual set of sex props. And it’s not because I’m a particularly kinky person – I love kink but I don’t engage in it very often. And yet, some of the toys I play with might surprise and confuse an innocent witness…
So, let’s take a look!
1. Jade egg
My Jade Egg is the oldest item in this collection. It’s been with me for about 5 years and I’m extremely fond of it. It’s been a tool of sexual healing and reclaiming a deep sensitivity inside of my vagina.
A lot can be done with a jade egg, including all sort of vaginal exercises but I really like to simply sleep with it. I insert it as I get to bed and allow it to do its magic while I sleep. As I move in my sleep, the egg is moving with me, massaging and caressing all the areas inside of my vaginal canal that benefit from a regular touch.
2. Rose quartz eggs
These three beauties are much newer and come in different sizes, allowing for different levels of pressure and weight inside of me.
3. Tachyon balls
If I understand well, Tachyon products do not come from Earth but are artificially made. These products are imbued with Tachyon energy which harmonises and neutralises harmful energies.
But apart from their vibrational qualities, they’re very yummy to play with!
I like to put them inside during a self-pleasuring session and squeeze my pelvic floor around them for extra delish sensations!
4. Rose quartz pleasure wand
Another one of my prized possessions! It can be used in a variety of ways to thrust, massage and stimulate the vaginal canal.
But it’s hard to get a good grip on the wand once it’s inside due to its shape and smoothness.
So instead of creating a lot of movement and sensation, I prefer to insert it all the way in so that’s touching my cervix. Once there, I bring a lot of awareness to my cervix and to the vaginal walls that are in contact with the wand. I can spend quite a considerable amount of time in complete stillness, enjoying the rippling, expansive pleasure emanating from my vagina.
Optionally, I can gently tap on the wand with my fingers to create extra sensations.
At times, I’ll also add external stimulation to create a blended orgasm.
5. Black obsidian pleasure wand
This wand is a little smaller than number 4. but it has a different energy to it. Black obsidian has a denser, more grounded energy and creates a different experience for Alice (that’s what I named my pussy).
6. Rechargeable vibrator
This little gem is pretty, small, handy and rechargeable. Easy to play with and even travel with!
I love how much pleasure it can give me but I usually don’t introduce it into my solo play until I’m well aroused and ready. It can take me into a climax within a few minutes so I’m careful with it and use it to tease myself for a while.
Word of caution: vibrators are great but can de-sensitize your intimate area. Make sure to only use it from time to time so that your precious pearl can receive plenty of gentler – hand stimulation as well!
7. Pleasure wand
This one is a serious mama-wand! It’s not only much bigger than number 6., it’s also much more powerful. It has about 30 different settings and a potential for a lot of fun.
But I NEVER use it on my genitals without a barrier of fabric – it’s way too powerful for nude Alice.
However, its strength and versatility make it perfect for other body parts…
Plus, if my rechargeable vibrator runs out of charge half-way through, I can always reach for the mama-wand!
8. Anal stimulator
There aren’t a lot of silicone items in my drawer but I got this nifty little toy because it vibrates. And according to Joseph Kramer, Ph.D., vibrations on the anus can induce trance-like state of bliss.
And oh boy, is he right!
I hope that this quick visit to my naughty drawer provided you with some insight and inspiration. Or at least a little chuckle… Let me know if it did and next time I might show you my kinky drawer!
And if you’re curious about using your self-pleasuring practice consciously to expand your erotic potential, have a look at the Masturbation Coaching online course. It’s an amazing resource that’ll show you how to infuse your self-touch practice with much more depth, pleasure and bliss!
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