Can men orgasm without ejaculation? Why would they want to do it? And what non-ejaculatory orgasms have to do with tantric orgasms and being a multi-orgasmic men? Don’t go anywhere because I’ve got it all here!

 

Let’s talk about ejaculation!

 

It’s highly pleasurable, it helps relieve stress and tension, it helps you sleep and medical doctors claim that it’s beneficial for the health of your prostate.

 

However, many men tell me about side effects of releasing semen and particularly when they’re releasing it frequently. For most men that climax of pleasure is followed by a sense of fatigue, being drained, by a foggy brain and lack of motivation.

 

Also, for most men ejaculation means the end of sexual intercourse because of the refractory period that prevents them from getting hard again for a while

 

This can be frustrating for many men who would love to be able to make love for much longer. The refractory period can last between a few minutes and a few days, depending on your age, health and overall wellbeing.

 

So what’s the alternative. Well, I’m glad that you asked!

 

According to tantric practitioners, any man can learn to separate the experience of orgasm from the experience of ejaculation. These two are in fact two separate phenomena that usually occur for men together.

 

Ejaculation is the pleasurable squirting of the semen while orgasm is a release of the arousal, of sexual energy that was built up during intercourse or masturbation

 

When a man is ejaculating, that external flow of semen, will typically pull all of his sexual energy out with it. This is why men typically lose a lot of energy during ejaculation and feel quite deflated afterwards.

 

However, when a man can orgasm without ejaculating, he can allow that delicious orgasmic force to implode internally inside of his body, giving him an experience of expanded, full-body ecstasy.

 

Orgasming without ejaculation means also that you as a man can keep going in bed for as long as you want because there’s no refractory period

 

You can keep your erection after each orgasm and you can keep penetrating your woman. This in turn is a true treat for your lady because most women struggle to orgasm or experience sexual satisfaction if the man can’t last long enough.

 

The biggest issue with experiencing full-body orgasms is the conditioning most men have around sex. Particularly porn trains us to think of ejaculation as a natural conclusion of a sexual experience.

 

I’ve even had some clients ask me in my sessions whether it’s harmful for them to NOT ejaculate during sex. And let me re-assure you – no, it’s not harmful at all. It might just be uncomfortable if you leave sexual energy in your pelvis, in your sex centre. Because that energy is potent and powerful and it’ll need to either be released externally or spread out internally through your body.

 

So what are non-ejaculatory orgasms and how to have them?

 

An orgasm without ejaculation, also known as an expanded orgasm, full-body orgasm, energy orgasm, valley orgasm or tantric orgasm, is a very blissful experience where your sexual energy is released internally in your body.

 

Imagine your erotic pleasure, the way you feel it in your cock when you’re hard and aroused. Imagine that electric, blissful energy spreading out and vibrating in your entire body. NOT with that pressing sense of urge to be released but with a sense of trance-like ecstasy.

 

Tantric men who learn to orgasm without ejaculation describe going into altered states of consciousness where the pleasure is so blissful and divine, that the ejaculation completely pales in comparison

 

In addition, full-body orgasms last much longer and leave you feeling nurtured, satisfied and deeply energized. They fuel your creativity, your clarity of thinking, your sense of masculine charisma and your wellbeing.

 

In order to have them, you need to learn to hold sexual energy in your body. So instead of thrusting quickly, forcefully or mechanically, slow down, notice all the pleasure and savour it in your body.

 

Here my video on Edging for Stronger orgasms will be very helpful so make sure to check it out!

 

And if you’re ready to go all the way and become a tantric lover yourself, you should definitely check out my Tantric Mastery for Men online course. It will teach you everything you need to know in order to last as long as you want, experience full-body non-ejaculatory orgasms and be a multi-orgasmic man.

 

But a few quick tips here are:

 

1/ don’t overstimulate your body,

Fast pace and friction will lead to high levels of excitement which will take you into ejaculation fairly quickly. So don’t overstimulate your body. Slow down the penetration, notice the sensations in your body, and enjoy the pleasure and arousal without needing to release it quickly.

 

2/ stop chasing orgasm

Forget the orgasm and enjoy sex for the sake of pleasure. There’s much more to intercourse than ejaculation so train yourself to keep noticing all the sensations, to stay connected to your body, to your partner and to your intimate experience together.

 

3/ relax the pelvic floor muscles

Tension holds sexual energy in your penis. So make sure to consciously relax your pelvic floor muscle in order to allow that energy to flow up through your entire body.

 

4/ breathe deeply

Deep breath with a sigh on the exhale… will help you feel more pleasure and will actively pull your arousal out of your genital area and into the rest of your body.

 

5/ feel your entire body

Make sure to also touch and caress the rest of your body. Or ask your lover to do that. As long as your attention is firmly kept in your cock, that’s where the sexual energy will stay. So make sure to pay attention to your entire system and feel all of your erogenous zones.

 

I hope that you loved this article and that it inspired you to experience non-ejaculatory orgasms for yourself as well. Please don’t forget to check out my online course Tantric Mastery for Men!

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