How to Give Her a Breast-gasm

I still remember my first ever breast-gasm, many years ago. It was beautiful, powerful and blissful. As my partner kept stimulating my breasts, the pleasure steadily grew in my chest area and then exploded through my entire body. Ripples and waves of sweet, orgasmic...

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How Do We Connect in Relationships

Since sex had been an area of struggle for most of my life, I always connected with my partners through talking. After reading “Five Love Languages”, I learned that Quality Time was my primary love language. And it just made sense to me that spending uninterrupted...

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Are You Scared? Or Excited?

Since this whole pandemic started, I've been experiencing episodes of fear and worry... What if I get sick and die? What if someone I know gets sick and dies? What if this Coronavirus hangs around for a very long time? What if we can never go back to our normal...

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Claiming Your Right to Pleasure

I don’t think there’s ever a bad time to claim your right to pleasure. BUT!... if there’s ever a REALLY good time for it, it’s now. Whether you’re currently stuck at home due to the coronavirus or not, whether you’re alone, with your beloved or the entire family,...

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Why Do I Lose My Erection At Times

A client asked me recently with hesitation and visible embarrassment: ‘Why do I lose erection sometimes?’. I appreciated the courage it took him to ask. This question arises in my sessions regularly, indicating just how common the problem is.   In fact, I have...

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Your Orgasms Can Activate Your Desires

I feel a little weird every time someone asks me about my age. Not because I’m worried about it or because it makes me uncomfortable. It doesn’t.   However, each time I answer this question, the reaction is one of shock and surprise. And it happens so often and...

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Breasts and Nipple-Gasms

Josh was a very slow and attentive lover. In fact, whenever I was with him, the whole world just seemed to slow down, luxuriously basking in each moment, relaxing in an awareness that there was absolutely nowhere else to be and nothing else to do.   He adored my body...

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How Do You Want To Be Loved?

The week of Valentine’s Day means different things to different people. Some people excitedly look forward to it, others choose to ignore it or even reject it, others still feel frustrated or extra lonely that day. All depends on your relationship status, your level...

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How to Cherish Your Arousal Daily

There are many reasons why I love driving my car – it’s the ultimate “me-time”! I don’t need to do anything (other than drive), I feel relaxed, the car is comfortable, I get to listen to my favourite music or audiobooks… And!... I get to play with my arousal.  ...

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Why The World Needs Tantra

I have a dream…   It may be uncommon and strongly influenced by my professional background and my personal history but… hear me out!   I dream of a world where sexuality is revered and celebrated, where pleasure is cherished, where body is honoured and deeply...

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How to Find & Pleasure Her G-spot

When I first heard of the G-spot and the G-spot orgasms, I was still a teenager and the whole concept was covered with a layer of mystery. I knew it was somewhere inside my vaginal canal and I even tried to look for it with my fingers but failed to locate it. My...

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How to Turn Foreplay Into a Delicious Feast

It has always confused me why people rush so much through foreplay and into the “main bit”, the penetration. Even more, it has always confused me why I seemed to rush into penetration in my earlier years, even though I knew that foreplay could provide me with...

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How Has 2019 Treated You?

I find it extremely valuable to look at my entire year and to assess how I’m doing as compared to where I was a year ago. And when I look at 2019 – I had a hell of a year!   I moved to Sydney, ended a long-term relationship, survived a full year of dating here (that...

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5 Steps to a Better Masturbation Practice

I recently got a very interesting question from one of my readers: “Do you think I could learn on my own to be the lover I crave to make love to? Or is it ultimately only possible to experience sacred sex with another? I want to do everything in my power to free...

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