10 Unexpected Benefits of Orgasm

On one hand, I feel like there’s absolutely no need to convince anyone that they should be having orgasms. I think that we’re all more or less aware that orgasms are yum, delicious and amazing! It feels so good to approach one, to have one and to come back to Earth...

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10 Unusual Ways to Masturbate

The International Masturbation Month is in full swing and I think that it’s time to play with some new, fun ideas. I am fond of giving my clients homework (or is it home-play?...) and I hope that you’ll be tempted to try at least a few of these scenarios.   Most...

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Masturbation Month & Pleasure Focus

May is here which means different things for different people. But for sex therapists, it's the International Masturbation Month! What does it mean? It means that for the entire 31 days we encourage everybody to openly discuss self-touch, self-pleasure practices and...

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How Is Covid-19 Affecting Your Sex Life?

Mere weeks ago, we had no idea what a Coronavirus was. In early March I was still planning my workshops and events (yes, in person!) and filling my calendar with social get-togethers. I was popping into my favourite cafés for a brunch or coffee while looking forward...

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How to Use Tantra to Uplevel Your Relationship

Just over six years ago, in March 2014, I had my “accident” which caused a dramatic shift in my life. One moment, I was having sex with my partner and the next - I was in excruciating pain, shock and then in a hospital. That experience was scary, enormously painful...

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How to Experience Even More Pleasure

A long time ago, I stumbled upon a very interesting technique that proved to have an incredible effect on my body. The technique helps to re-sensitize any body part and works particularly well for the genital area. I have been sharing this technique with my clients...

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How to Give Her a Breast-gasm

I still remember my first ever breast-gasm, many years ago. It was beautiful, powerful and blissful. As my partner kept stimulating my breasts, the pleasure steadily grew in my chest area and then exploded through my entire body. Ripples and waves of sweet, orgasmic...

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How Do We Connect in Relationships

Since sex had been an area of struggle for most of my life, I always connected with my partners through talking. After reading “Five Love Languages”, I learned that Quality Time was my primary love language. And it just made sense to me that spending uninterrupted...

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Are You Scared? Or Excited?

Since this whole pandemic started, I've been experiencing episodes of fear and worry... What if I get sick and die? What if someone I know gets sick and dies? What if this Coronavirus hangs around for a very long time? What if we can never go back to our normal...

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Claiming Your Right to Pleasure

I don’t think there’s ever a bad time to claim your right to pleasure. BUT!... if there’s ever a REALLY good time for it, it’s now. Whether you’re currently stuck at home due to the coronavirus or not, whether you’re alone, with your beloved or the entire family,...

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Why Do I Lose My Erection At Times

A client asked me recently with hesitation and visible embarrassment: ‘Why do I lose erection sometimes?’. I appreciated the courage it took him to ask. This question arises in my sessions regularly, indicating just how common the problem is.   In fact, I have...

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Your Orgasms Can Activate Your Desires

I feel a little weird every time someone asks me about my age. Not because I’m worried about it or because it makes me uncomfortable. It doesn’t.   However, each time I answer this question, the reaction is one of shock and surprise. And it happens so often and...

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Breasts and Nipple-Gasms

Josh was a very slow and attentive lover. In fact, whenever I was with him, the whole world just seemed to slow down, luxuriously basking in each moment, relaxing in an awareness that there was absolutely nowhere else to be and nothing else to do.   He adored my body...

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How Do You Want To Be Loved?

The week of Valentine’s Day means different things to different people. Some people excitedly look forward to it, others choose to ignore it or even reject it, others still feel frustrated or extra lonely that day. All depends on your relationship status, your level...

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How to Cherish Your Arousal Daily

There are many reasons why I love driving my car – it’s the ultimate “me-time”! I don’t need to do anything (other than drive), I feel relaxed, the car is comfortable, I get to listen to my favourite music or audiobooks… And!... I get to play with my arousal.  ...

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