How to Amp Up Your Sexy
When I first heard of a practice called ‘Golden Chalice’, it seduced me with both the experience it was promising me and with its name. Doesn't it sound so lush, so feminine – Golden Chalice… Like a female version of ‘Holy Grail’! This technique is designed to...
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What If Sex Turns Bad
Some time ago I met a man who was a truly amazing lover. We were very compatible sexually and every time we were spending time together, things would get hot and steamy very quickly. He knew how to turn me on and how to send me to heights of pleasure. Orgasming with...
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Why Women Choose Dickheads
I’m often asked by guys why women say that they want a nice guy but then they put him in the friend-zone and go out with a “dickhead” instead. There is usually a lot of frustration behind that question because nice guys know how much value they’re capable of offering...
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The Libido Myth
Do you have a high libido? A low one? Is your libido somewhere in between? Is it always the same? Does it keep changing? Does it depend on particular circumstances? If so, what is it influenced by? And can you even define your libido if someone asked you to?... For...
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What Your Masturbation Habits Say About You
When I first started studying masturbation coaching within my sexological training, I was mind-blown. I had no idea that when it comes to self-pleasuring, the number of techniques, practices and ideas is endless… At that point in my life, I had been touching myself...
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What’s Inside a Sex Therapist’s Naughty Drawer
Have you ever wondered what's inside a sex therapist's naughty drawer?... Every time I mention my naughty drawer to someone, I need to explain that it’s not a standard kind of a drawer. In fact, its contents are quite different from what a regular person would...
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You Are Not Failing at Relationships
I grew up in a family with very strict catholic values – you didn’t have sex before marriage and once married, you were supposed to stay together till death do you part. This ideal was strengthened by Disney movies and kids’ stories that always ended with a vision of...
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Women Fear Growing Older
When I was 27, I decided to stop wearing cropped tops since my young, flat stomach suddenly stopped being naturally and effortlessly flat and it was no longer an option to freely show it to the world. When I was turning 30, I experienced a profound existential crisis,...
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Essential Guide to Spanking
As both a keen receiver and giver of spanking, I’ve learned over the years that this form of kink can be pleasurable, fun and even orgasmic when performed right. But it can also be unpleasant, irritating or painful when performed without appropriate skill or insight....
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Why You Might Want to Surrender in Bed
Whenever I talk to my clients about orgasms, I need to explain what I mean by that word. Because to anybody that practices Tantra and tantric sex, the word ‘orgasm’ gains a whole new meaning. Typically and conventionally, the word ‘orgasm’ is understood as a climax...
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Practices for Maintaining Passion & Desire in Relationships
During my recent talk at Eros Festival in Sydney, I explored a topic that for most people comes with a lot of questions, confusion and mystery. I talked about maintaining passion and desire in relationships, and particularly in long-term relationships. If you’ve...
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Maintaining Passion & Desire in Relationships
Over the weekend I had an incredible pleasure and joy of being one of the presenters at the Eros Festival in Sydney. On Sunday morning, I guided a workshop on Maintaining Passion & Desire in Relationships. The talk was hugely popular and I received incredibly warm...
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The Mask I Wear is One
I was recently listening to one of my all-time favourite songs of Sting - "Shape of My Heart" - if you don't know it, put it on now! And if you do know it, put it on anyway 😊 In the song, he sings: "I'm not a man of too many faces, The mask I wear is one." This...
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My Precious Insecurities
Recently, I had a very powerful conversation with a friend. He let me talk about all the most vulnerable, raw and honest parts of myself. At times, he offered a few words of insight or a clarifying question. Other than that, he just listened to me share about my...
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About Full-Body Orgasms
Recently I gave an interview where one of the questions asked was “what is a full-body orgasm?”. As this is something I hear very often AND just in case you were also wondering, let me tell you a little story from my life… One of my first full-body orgasms happened...
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