I have orgasmed in public many times before.   (I guess that’s a phrase you don’t hear very often!). It has happened mainly with me as a participant during workshops, Tantra events and different sexuality courses. But more recently, these public O’s have taken on a...

When I first heard of a practice called ‘Golden Chalice’, it seduced me with both the experience it was promising me and with its name. Doesn't it sound so lush, so feminine – Golden Chalice… Like a female version of ‘Holy Grail’!   This technique is designed to...

Have you ever wondered what's inside a sex therapist's naughty drawer?... Every time I mention my naughty drawer to someone, I need to explain that it’s not a standard kind of a drawer. In fact, its contents are quite different from what a regular person would...

When I was 27, I decided to stop wearing cropped tops since my young, flat stomach suddenly stopped being naturally and effortlessly flat and it was no longer an option to freely show it to the world. When I was turning 30, I experienced a profound existential crisis,...

Whenever I talk to my clients about orgasms, I need to explain what I mean by that word. Because to anybody that practices Tantra and tantric sex, the word ‘orgasm’ gains a whole new meaning.   Typically and conventionally, the word ‘orgasm’ is understood as a climax...