A few years ago, I had a great privilege of meeting one of the most amazing, determined and brave women in my life. Following her journey from slums and shame to independence, strength and purpose has been humbling yet deeply inspiring for me.


Ruby Usman was born in the slums of Karachi in Pakistan. She experienced sexual abuse at the hands of many men as a child; some of them strangers and others, close family members. She grew up as a Muslim woman and experienced violence as an integral part of society and culture. She now writes and speaks against these traditions that cause people to harm innocent children and enslave women in the name of Islam.


Ruby is the founder of Healing Wounds Together and I’m extremely proud to announce that I have teamed up with her to launch One for One for Pakistan. This is an initiative that offers women in Pakistan sexual education in order to support them in reclaiming their bodies and their lives as worthy of respect, love and pleasure.


Each time a person purchases the Orgasmic Empowerment online, one woman in Pakistan, gets access to the same information. Orgasmic Empowerment is a 7-week online program that supports women who feel disconnected from their bodies, who suffered any form of sexual abuse or who simply struggle to awaken their full erotic and orgasmic potential. Imagine the difference it can make in lives of women who were abused and shamed to never speak up for themselves! Women who experienced sexual violence and rape throughout their lives in the hands of men they called husbands, uncles or brothers.

But that’s not all!

Orgasmic Empowerment online normally retails at AU$297 but as a part of this campaign, I’m giving it away at a donation price. Simply get in touch with me to name that price that you’d like to pay and I’ll give you AND one woman in Pakistan access to the entire course.

Women who live traditional Pakistani lives, have access to no sexual education whatsoever and this campaign gives them a chance to heal their abuse and create a completely new life for themselves and for their daughters.

Please listen to your heart and listen to the silent suffering of women in Muslim countries…

Watch my video to learn more!



PS. Please get in touch with me and support my campaign! Email me with “One for One for Pakistan” in subject line and let me know the donation you’d like to make for Orgasmic Empowerment. Invest in your own sexual growth and create a much needed change for suffering women in Pakistan. Thank you! xxx



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