Who I Am

Sexpert & Tantra Teacher

I am one of Australia’s leading sexperts and Tantra teachers.

I am a mentor, author, speaker and lover.

I am a certified sex therapist and Tantra practitioner.

I am passionate about helping my clients create amazing sex lives.

“We are all born sexual creatures, thank God; but it’s a pity so many people despise and crush this natural gift.”

Marilyn Monroe

Let’s dive deeper

My Mission

My mission in life is to spark a sexual revolution that will break through the shackles of conditioning and limiting beliefs to empower people to experience sex as natural, healthy and utterly beautiful.

I work with men, women and couples who want to improve their sex lives. My ideal clients are curious by nature and want to explore alternative ways to having longer lasting sex and being amazing lovers.

After years of sexual despair, I finally discovered the life-changing rituals of Tantra. Since then, I have relentlessly pursued knowledge and skill in the fine art of sex, attending training events all over the world. I have coached over 1,000 paying clients to be masterful lovers and to take their sex lives to the next level.

How I can help

Men & Women Seek My Help With…


… to learn beautiful tools and rituals of tantric lovemaking


… to develop a much deeper and more profound connection with their partners



… to obtain much more sexual satisfaction, pleasure and nurturing in their relationships

“Legendary Lover”

I am the author of ‘Legendary Lover’, a unique program which outlines my 6-step methodology to make sex both profound and ecstatic.

I deliver my program as a keynote speech, a book, a workshop, Tantra courses and 1on1 sessions.

My Work

My sessions are custom designed to suit your needs

My clients come to me because they are bored or frustrated with their sex lives. Many just know that there must be more to sexuality and they want to reach that deeper level. What we learn about sex in our modern world is very limited. We have an inner knowing that much more is possible, yet nobody tells us how to get there. What we see on TV and internet is barely scratching the surface of our sexual potential and the porn industry is not helping either.

The problems my clients usually struggle with are:

lack of sexual satisfaction, painful sex or inhibitions around sex,

premature ejaculation or erectile difficulty,

porn addiction,

performance anxiety or difficulty orgasming and

a desire to reach a new, exciting depth and satisfaction in their relationships.

I believe everybody is entitled to great, orgasmic sex. I want to make sexuality a dinner time conversation. I want to take Tantra into high schools so that, instead of learning about sex from porn, young people are able to learn about true intimacy, mindful connection, respect and deep mutual nurturing. Only by embracing sexuality we can become whole again.


My expertise and certifications

Some of the teachers I’ve studied with:

  • Australian School of Tantra: Tantra Teacher Training
  • Australian School of Tantra: Goddess Training
  • Institute of Somatic Sexology: Certificate in Sexological Bodywork
  • Institute of Somatic Sexology: Working with Erectile Difficulty
  • Institute of Embodied Therapy: Embodied Counselling
  • Shantam Nityama: Nitvana Bodywork Training
  • International School of Temple Arts: Spiritual Sexual Shamanic Experience
  • Barbara Carrellas: Urban Tantra
  • Andrew Barnes: Body De-armouring Training
  • Kenneth Ray Stubbs: Sexual Shaman Training
  • Tantric Synergy: Body Whisperer Practitioner Training
  • Eliyah: Kundalini Tantra Training
  • Intimate Power: Beyond Yoni Massage
  • Knightlamp: Understanding and Healing Childhood Trauma
  • Discover Massage Australia: Certificate in a Whole Body Massage


What My Clients are Saying

“Sexual education for adults”

“I have just learnt in one session more about sexuality than I have in my entire life! Thank you!”


“Amazing tantric sex”

“I’m having amazing tantric sex, you’ve been so important to my growth, my partner says I am so far beyond anything she’s ever experienced that it’s incomparable 🙂 ”


“Improved life experience”

“You taught me much more than you know! And not just about sex. About my way of being. You really improved my life… I don’t get involved in conflicts anymore, I just walk away and breathe. It’s not worth it. You have no idea how much you gave me. Thank you!”


“Amazing awakening”

“Hi Helena, Just a follow up message to say thanks again for taking me on my Tantric journey. I seriously discovered more about myself, women and sexuality in three sessions than I have learnt in 30 years. It was an amazing awakening and I am true convert to Tantric intimacy. Everyone should do one of these sessions as I am sure there would be more respect for one another. ”


My Personal Story

From young age I experienced strong shame and guilt around any sexual desires, thoughts or impulses.

I learnt to perceive my genitals as dirty and sinful, disconnecting myself from my orgasms and pleasure potential.

This attitude finally pushed my body beyond its limits and I was rushed to the hospital, paralyzed by pain.

This event constituted a huge crisis from which I bounced forward to educating myself in sacred sexuality and fully embracing my sexual self.

Tantra gave me answers that I had been looking for all my life!

I learnt why sex was so painful and uncomfortable before.

I learnt how to reclaim my pleasure and my entire body as erotic.

And I finally learnt to orgasm – with my entire body, heart, mind and soul, in a deep unity with a partner, connected in the most sacred and intimate way.

Learning about Tantra showed me a completely new perspective on sex and pleasure.

It taught me to build strong, deeply intimate bonds with my partner, to celebrate our sexual union and to fully connect to my body for multi-orgasmic, profoundly satisfying and nurturing sex.

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