Are you selling yourself short when it comes to your eroticism?
For many, many years in my life and in my relationships, I felt doomed and depressed. I desperately wanted to be a great lover and to be a profoundly orgasmic woman. But whatever I tried, nothing seemed to be bringing me closer to that goal.
I studied magazines and browsed the internet looking for answers. I tried all possible tips and techniques I could find… and I still remained unorgasmic and frustrated.
Until I learned where I was cutting myself off of my full erotic potential.
A lot of people I speak to tell me that they struggle to experience as much pleasure and orgasmic energy during sex as they’d like. They’re usually not sure what they actually want, need or desire in bed. Others feel like they experience serious blockages in their intimacy and have no idea what to do about them.
The truth is that we all have been subjected to conditioning and messages that limit our sexual experience. These messages often sit deeply in our subconscious and we’re unable to do anything about them unless we bring them out to the light first.
Many others have been subjected to treatment which can be impacting them still years later! This is shocking and really sad. I have worked with clients who were so deeply wounded by something that happened 30 years earlier, that they still struggled to create satisfying experiences in the bedroom.
PS. If you’re aware of your sexual wounding and would love some support, please don’t hesitate to reach out to me. I provide 1on1 sessions where I support my clients in overcoming their sexual issues and creating the kind of sex lives that they desire.
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Hi Helna, I enjoy my sexuality immensley, but as you point out I live in a society, Ameerica that is quite oppresive when it comes to sex, so I get negative reactions to my open expression of my sexuality and relationships become a struggle with even talking about sex openly.
I see that I need to hang out with different people, people who are more open, accepting and expressive of their sexuality and leave the others to their own limitations.
I do appreciate you and your willingness to talk about it and lead the conversation.
Thabk you, Truth