Crystal Wands and Cervical Orgasms

Crystal Wands and Cervical Orgasms

I got a really warm response to my recent post titled “Nobody is coming to save you”. It seems that my determination to stop the Covid slow-down in my own life resonated with a lot of other people! Quite a lot of us have had enough of the lethargy dragging us down due to the pandemic.

 

As part of my desire to reclaim my old, pre-Covid self, I decided to go back to my favourite sexual practices. And one of them playing with my rose quartz pleasure wand.

 

I originally got my wand years ago.

 

Back then I was still in the process of healing a lot of my old sexual trauma and wounding. I kept using tantric practices to re-sensitize my genitals and the rest of my body. But the point of using the wand was to specifically work on my cervix.

 

Cervix is located at the end of the vaginal canal and forms an entrance to the womb. Stimulating the cervix pleasurably can lead to a cervical orgasm which to me is an absolute holy grail of all female orgasms! Cervical orgasm feels like waves of incredibly deep pleasure spreading slowly and flowing through my entire system, vibrating in my cells, overtaking my entire body, taking my breath away…

 

But recently I started noticing a loss of sensation in my cervix.

 

It seems that I’ve neglected it over the last few months. Or maybe it’s been responding to a low level stress and anxiety in my body caused by the unusual events in the world?….

 

First two or three times using my wand again didn’t bring mind-blowing results but I knew better than to give up too quickly. I continued my practice and it truly paid off! The fourth session of self-pleasure with my crystal dildo brought me into a trance-like state of ecstatic bliss and cervical orgasm.

 

It felt so good to be back!

 

I felt connected, sensual, erotic, cherishing my cervix together with the rest of my sensitive body. When I finally pulled the wand out of my vagina, I felt joy, love and happiness blissfully flooding my entire system.

 

A lot of women don’t realize what their bodies are capable of. A lot have never heard of cervical orgasms! Most women experience their cervix as completely numb and hence unable to feel any pleasure. This is due to years of mechanical, disconnected sex where the head of the penis repeatedly hits the cervix painfully, leading to loss of sensitivity.

 

The good news is that any woman can heal herself and reclaim the full orgasmic potential of her cervix.

 

Crystal wand is a particularly powerful tool to do that as it can easily reach and massage the depths of the vaginal canal, while activating the numb nerve endings and bringing back that natural sense of aliveness and pleasure.

 

Is it time to get your own pleasure wand? Check out my favourite Rose Quartz Pleasure Wands available through a supplier I use and trust. And enjoy your own orgasmic journey!!!

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Nobody Is Coming to Save You

Nobody Is Coming to Save You

I’m not proud of myself. Last few months have been very unusual for me. I haven’t been myself, I’ve struggled with simple tasks and life seems to have been slipping through my fingers.

 

I’ve always been driven, energetic and easily motivated. I’ve worked for myself for over 10 years now and I never had an issue with staying inspired and getting stuff done. I’ve been capable of accomplishing incredible things in a short amount of time, all while balancing work with personal life, diet, fitness routine, education, self-growth, etc.

 

But all of that seems to have collapsed lately.

 

Maybe due to COVID, maybe due to cold weather (Australian winter is still winter!) or maybe I reached a point of exhaustion and needed to just rest.

 

And rest I have! I’ve been sleeping more, working less, getting take-away meals, neglecting my daily rituals and practices and watching way too much Netflix. For a while there I even felt sort of stuck, low on energy and unable to make any changes. Until a voice deep inside me said “that’s enough!”.

 

I am aware of the importance of self-compassion during such unusual times. But I’m also remembering a piece of wisdom I learned early in life:

 

NOBODY IS COMING TO SAVE YOU!

 

Growing up in a poor family in communist Poland wasn’t exactly glamorous but it meant that I had to go out and work for everything that I wanted. And this attitude has served me many, many times!

 

I see a lot of people who are waiting to be saved – from being single and feeling lonely, from experiencing financial lack, from feeling unlovable, not good enough, not happy enough, etc.

 

And the truth is that the only person that can save you is YOU!

 

Other people can bring temporary sense of joy, connection and satisfaction but none of that will hang around if it’s not coming from you.

 

So, I’m not going to wait any longer either. I’ve had my break and now I want to feel like myself again. I’ve started getting up early, working out more, I cancelled Netflix and started cooking healthy meals. I am sticking to a solid morning routine and am much more disciplined with myself around what I get done every day. And if I can do that, so can you!

 

Let me know below if you’ve also experienced a sense of lethargy lately and if you’re ready to turn that around! And if you’d like some sexy magic to support you in turning your life around, try my Manifesting with Sex Magic online course! Use coupon code LOVE to claim a 50% discount – until until Sunday!

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Have you ever heard of slow sex? What comes to mind when you hear these words together? Slow – sex… What kind of scenes do you see when you picture it in your head? Can you even picture it?

 

When I first heard of this notion, I was shocked and surprised. In my mind, these two words did not belong together. It sounded like a contradiction. And I was sure as hell that I had never experienced it. For many years of my life up to that point, sex was always fast and frantic – full of excitement, friction and rush, with almost non-existent foreplay.

 

So discovering slow sex was quite challenging at first since it questioned everything I knew about sex up to that point. But it also brought unexpected rewards and delights.

 

Slowing down and taking your time is a huge part of having a satisfying sex life. But most people are strongly conditioned for fast friction and chasing the orgasm. Would you like to learn how slowing down can revolutionize your sex life and create more pleasure and stronger intimacy?

 

I first heard of slow sex about 6 years ago. I was reading a book by Diana Richardson called “Slow sex” and at the time her ideas completely confused me and even scared me! Because after all, what was left in sex if you took away all the fast friction, all the excitement and all the animalistic passion? I couldn’t understand what slowing down was supposed to bring to the lovemaking.

 

As you can probably tell, my sex life back then was pretty mediocre.

 

And the sex itself was based more on ideas found in porn than in bedrooms of real, loving, intimate couples. It took me a while to learn that really mind-blowing sex isn’t just about friction and chasing that orgasm but more about a heart connection, about sensitivity and sensual touch, about profound pleasure, about breathing together and feeling the erotic energy in your body, enjoying the arousal building up, cherishing the togetherness, and about having a very special, magical, intimate time with your lover.

 

And it’s actually a bit sad when we reduce sex to just a chase towards orgasm. Because it is about so much more! And when we slow down, we can actually pay attention to other aspects of our lovemaking. We can open up our hearts to each other. We can awaken deep sensitivity within our bodies, using gentle, slow touch. We can create a meaningful container for our love which turns sex into a magical ritual of loving connection, pleasure and fun.

 

And for all the more daring lovers, a more advanced challenge is to introduce stillness into their bedrooms.

 

This is something that not many people have ever heard of or ever tried. But stopping all movement in the middle of sex is magic! Because when you’re aroused, when you’re enjoying a sexual connection with your partner, when your naked body is pressed against theirs and your entire system is activated and turned-on, there is a world of sensations happening inside of you. And when you stop and feel, you can notice all of it!

 

When you slow down or even stop, you’re also much more relaxed. And in a relaxed body, sexual energy can travel more freely, creating a more expanded experience of erotic energy and orgasms. When you’re rushing, your body is contracted and the orgasms become very localized and constricted. But when you relax, that sexual energy can travel much further, creating pleasure that flows and ripples through your entire system.

 

So next time you’re making love, slow down and take your time.

 

Become really present with yourself first, with your own body and your own senses, and then also with your partner, enjoying your connection, touching each other slowly. It’s as if you were discovering each other’s body, stroking their skin with curiosity, exploring pleasure in all sorts of different ways and forms.

 

You can play with different types of touch, different levels of pressure, touching different areas that maybe you haven’t given a lot of attention before. Using props, using your breath, breathing consciously brings a whole new level of pleasure into sex. Give yourself a full permission to experiment, to explore and to fully delve into your sexuality and your sensuality.

 

And please let me know what your first reaction to slow sex is! Is this idea completely new to you or have you heard of it before? Are you sure that it would never work for you or are you curious and ready to try? I look forward to hearing from you!

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A lot of men come to me seeking advice on increasing the strength and hardness of their erections. It seems that there is a prevailing perception out in the world that a penis should be capable of being rock-hard for a long time which fact then is linked to a man’s value as a lover. This perception is often intensified by the porn industry which never shows flaccid penises. This in turn sends a powerful message that a man should be always hard when in bed with a woman.

 

Fun fact: I once read that on any porn set, most time is spent waiting for the lead actor to get hard.

 

Many men also tend to compare their performance to their younger selves which in majority of cases will make them feel inadequate. Men in their 20s typically have erections that are strong, frequent and 100% dependable. But this will start changing at around age 30. However, if a man has no idea that this is a natural process, he might feel distressed and anxious about his experience.

 

There is also a range of conditions that will affect a man’s sexual stamina, erection and performance, like cardiovascular conditions and blood flow issues, diabetes, low testosterone, stress, alcohol consumption and even depression. So, it might be a great start to pay your doctor a visit and get a full physical to address potential health issues first.

 

Erections will naturally weaken with age, however, any man can slow down that process by taking a good care of his body and by being proactive with his sexual health.

 

So, what are your next steps to stronger, harder erections?

 

1/ Take care of your testosterone

Healthy testosterone level will have a strong impact on the quality of your erection. So make sure to support your body – limit sugar and alcohol intake, get plenty of restful sleep, limit stress in your life, eat a healthy, balanced diet, get enough sun, etc.

 

2/ Let your inner warrior out to play

Typically masculine activities that stimulate your inner hunter/warrior energy will naturally drive your testosterone levels up. This can include practicing martial arts, resistance training such as weight lifting, high-intensity interval training (HIIT), etc. Choose the activity that you will enjoy most!

 

3/ Relax!

Relaxation promotes erections. So next time you find yourself tensing up in order to force your erection to get harder, try to keep your body open and relaxed.

Remember that your body knows best how to create best erections which is why men often wake up with a hard cock in the morning. Reason for that is state of deep relaxation that your body entered during sleep!

 

4/ Learn to feel your cock

A lot of sexual issues stem from a disconnection between the head and the pelvic area. There is a number of reasons why this might happen – past trauma, shame, inhibitions or even medical procedures. The best way to go about changing this situation is to deepen the sensitivity in your penis.

In order to do that, spend a few minutes every day breathing deeply and bringing your attention down to your cock. Once you can start feeling energy, pleasure and arousal there while performing this exercise (without any physical touch), you’ll know that you’re on the right track!

 

5/ Get out of your head

Performance anxiety can be a strongly inhibiting factor when it comes to hard erections. When you’re stuck in your head and stressing about your performance, you’re driving energy and blood-flow away from your genitals, weakening your ability to be hard.

Instead of putting pressure on yourself and pushing your body to perform better, bring your awareness down into your penis and simply FEEL all the arousal, excitement and erotic energy. This body-based approach will bring much better results than trying to force things from the level of your head!

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