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I recently came back from Confest – an alternative gathering of a few thousand of people, held in the bush, near the border of Victoria and NSW. The attendees set up their tents and motorhomes to spend Easter together, surrounded by nature, trees, river and birds. There is no amplified music there and the main themes of the event are community, family, living close to nature, embracing nudity and learning from each other.
My time there was extremely insightful and made me question a lot of things that we as a society take for granted. In fact, I cried in the car on my way home, realizing that at the end of my trip I had to face the normal life again.
The ‘normal’ life is for most of us the life of separation – stuck in our beautiful homes or offices, we rarely know our neighbours or wider community.
The ‘normal’ life is a life of stress – we’re stuck in a rat race, purchasing things we cannot afford and stressing about working harder in order to pay our debts.
The ‘normal’ life is a life of 9-5 – tolerating Monday to Friday in order to do things we like on the weekends.
The society trains us to live life in a certain way, to the point that we do not question it anymore.
And this is why every time I escape to the bush and spend some time with other crazy hippies, I have a mini breakdown upon returning home.
Clothing optional paradise
We all enjoy being nude, yet we can only indulge in it in the privacy of our homes.
Somebody decided that it was indecent to be naked and our bodies became sexualized.
But anybody who is offended by naked strangers, should spend a few days at Confest.
After one day of an initial shock, seeing naked bodies everywhere becomes normal, natural.
Naked bodies are beautiful and healthy.
Naked people are not sexual – they’re just people.
Every clothing optional event I attend reminds me just how good it feels to be naked!
What is ‘normal’?
I actually feel that what we’ve come to consider normal, is really not.
My body and emotional states guide me in what serves me and what doesn’t.
My soul sings when I’m out in the bush, when I disconnect from the electronic devices and wake up to the sunrise, hearing birds and watching kangaroos.
I feel happy and nurtured when being surrounded by a happy, supportive community.
I thrive on simple, plant based foods.
I love watching people dropping all the “shoulds” and “should nots” in their lives, while embracing their true, authentic, colourful selves.
And I believe that this is the normal, this is how we are meant to live.
In the current world, the festival culture is a way to escape, even if only briefly, the reality that we’ve built for ourselves.
But what if we could bring it to our everyday lives?
What would happen if we all could express ourselves freely – through our clothing (or lack of), through our behaviour, our homes, our families?
What would happen if we abandoned the “shoulds”, the suits, the patterns of behaviour that serve somebody else’s profit?
What if we abandoned “profit” as a driving force and embraced community, compassion and connection instead?
I do wonder…
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